Having company makes life so easy to live, and this can also make it so miserable. Regardless of the age, sex, gender, financial status, we all need something from folks we don’t know and the ones we know to be precise. Some individuals embrace Independence to the extent of living without having affection and respect for their relations, while some individuals rely on people to progress in whatever they are involved.
Reading the paragraph above, one would probably think this journal should be a guideline on how to live with or without friends, partners and associates. Digesting the last sentence from the first would definitely tell you what this is all about.
I grew up in a moderately populated neighborhood where you can’t keep to yourself, because almost every of the residing families live together in harmony, just like blood relations neglecting societal class, ethnicity or religion. So, being a sensitive kid in this small beautiful world, I learnt a lot about love, partnership, self discipline and dependency. Looking deep into my encounters, I was able to
“Being dependent is humane, being too dependent is weakness while being independent takes courage”
There are times you will need someone 2 put you through a difficulty, then your partnership, friendship and relationship you’ve kept comes to your rescue.
Some people have problems with friendship, relationship because of their pride forgetting that some friends makes us feel loved than our brothers or sisters, this makes the people that forgo partnership loose this compassionate feeling.
When it comes to “Dating and Loving”, laying of love becomes so interesting. Some people actualize their goals on time just because of the person they are in love with or dating precisely and precisely.
Loving is an essential factor that makes you realize being together with someone in life is natural and beneficial. When you are loved purely and exceptionally by someone, you will unconsciously loosen up on your principles of being independent, except if you don’t have a heart that pumps red blood. Also when you love someone wholeheartedly and you are loved back, the essence of existence will surely be shown to you by no man. Then easily you climb to the top for you have passionate additional reason to get to the top.
Seriously, the major aspect that helps both lovers to progress in their Endeavour is “PEACE”, and this comes from “TRUST”
When you find someone that trust you so much and tries to avoid drama, issues or fight at every opportunity, then you will absolutely be focused in whatever you reaching for.
However, some people says having a relationship slows you down in projection because you have to start dealing with someone else’s emotions alongside yours which will apparently distract you and mistaking your steps in getting accomplished. The correction to this notion has been stated above, but for further explanations; I will say a relationship that slows you down in achieving your goals is simply a wrong relationship. Its either you are the problem of yourself by not trusting your partner, you are not being expressive enough to say what you feel and what you want, you not loving your partner right or your partner doing all these things to you. So, this means you are on the wrong way.
Moreover, being with someone that prays and pray for you matters a lot because to have a sweet relationship and smooth ride to glory requires God’s blessings. So when your partner prays for both parties, the effect will surely be seen positively. Then don’t you complain about things not working out for you because you are with someone, move closer to the Almighty and persuade your partner to do the same. Surely your union shall be blessed.
When you find someone that forgives and forgets easily, that means you’ve found an understanding partner and not a fool, because for every mistake u make your partner will never judge you wrongly but reason in the right sense and correct u against next time. You will definitely learn about doing the same to your partner and to other people around you and that makes you a better person to the society at large.
In addition, Satisfaction is one thing that can make you loved and cherished because to satisfy human is not a child’s play, which is why there are some desire a lonely person can never get. So also, getting one’s desire in a relationship isn’t easy, you have to love what you are seeing naturally before the feeling of adjustment set in because human choices and likes changes due to their psychological nature. These desires could be care, sex, dressing, correction, attention, appearance and looks, religious practice, neatness, faithfulness, etc. For being with someone that can meet up with one’s desire ends one’s seek for other companionship and makes you feel complete
Having these narrated features in your relationship/partnership makes you independent while dependent for you are with your SOUL MATE not a Girlfriend, Fiance or Wife. So don’t abuse relationship companionship, friendship or partnership saying they are trouble builders.
Love is a beautiful thing get a SOUL MATE and your journey in life becomes easy.
Come to think of it, God created Eve in support of Adam, so you both need each other on this trip with love as your navigation.
Author Ridwan Adeyeye
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Every talent given to a creature can never be long hidden, this is my natural potential and ability in art. I discovered I could write, sing and act as in dramatic art. Since then I’ve been trying to develop myself, because I’ve always dreamt about, singing or acting as a profession back when i was a kid but I was already in mid-year class in my senior high school studying science as a major. Like every boy graduating from high school with the dream of going to a university, I did the JAMB exam and the post UTME and i scored a pass mark to secure admission into a university of choice. Unfortunately, I was offered to study another course that I didn’t applied for but was in line with my O’level result standard. This led to the rough experience I’m going through presently; I am currently trying to gain my studentship back in one of the top university of this country.
You might have been curious to know what my story is all about after reading the lines above! Back to the story: I was offered estate management as a course of study in compliment of my application but surprisingly my father with a neighborhood father decided I shouldn’t go for the course that it is not worth his dream for me And after-all I was young And can still go for another Jamb exam the following year And score a higher mark, I felt like the sky is caving-in on me while my father felt that time is still on my side. So, I moved on and stared to look for other ways by which I can actually get an admission into a university. Eventually I got a link from one of my friend staying across the street, telling me his school’s diploma form is out and all successful graduating diploma students will transit to 2nd year but the school fees is quite much and the diploma courses are tough. I believe in my self so I decided to go for it but I will have to inform my parents about the development. I was first feeling somehow about how my father will feel about this, and then his response at telling him makes me forgive him of his previous selfish decision. So, I got the form to enroll for the course, during my final year in diploma school authority advised students having D7 grade in any of the basic science(physics,chemistry,biology) to enroll in any of that year’s O’level certificate exam so as to correct the deficiency, I enrolled 4 that year’s NECO june/july examination.
At the time the result came out I had the deficiency corrected with a credit pass in chemistry. Eventually, I got my transit into the 2nd year and I was offered my course of choice which was food science and technology (fst).
I spent most of my days in school trying live the best way I feel will not implicate me in the after school life. So many unsleep nights, uncountable hungry and tired moments, lot of unfavorable and tough courses and stuffy classes,then adaptation was the greatest of all habits. But I held on
Having passed through all these, I received a letter asking me to withdraw in my final year alas!!!, few months to graduation. For what in heaven led to this! On the letter was the inscription; falsification of O’level result. I was first crazy at the point of getting this letter, so I snaply find my way to my HOD’s office for clarification, there I was advised to report to the exams And records unit of the university senate. The lady I met there asked me to check the O’level results I used for my admission freshly online. Eventually, after checking the results I realised that the second result that I used in correcting the deficiency has been cancelled by the examination body. I rushed down to the unit to report the outcome And I was referred to higher offices for rectification And consideration, then I was asked to make an official appeal in order for me to gain my studentship and enroll for another O’level certificate examination to correct the chemistry deficiency, since then nothing positive has came out, that means I should start all over again because I’m yet to see the way out of this problem.
- Are all the years spent to get to this stage a waste?
- Is the university not a humane system?
- What about NECO’s decision?
- Is chemistry a subject or a course for me?
- I’m 26yr of age, is time still on my side?
- What should I do?
- What is the right turning for me?
Because I want to face art squarely and live my dream with or without any Bsc.
Author – Adeyeye Ridwan
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There is always a person(s) that seem to be outstanding around us, considering the way they treat us and what they portray. When this/these person(s) find their way into our heart they transform emotionally, psychological, mentally, spiritually and physically into a star in our life.
Entertainment seems to be the only field that makes provision for a social celebration of these our stars. Every entertainment fan will surely have a reason for loving a particular act(s), this/these Act(s) present and project his ‘outstanding style with different touches’. With the style presented by a particular act, millions of people (fans) follow his/her works and life to prove their platonic interest. Focusing on MUSIC, life can change from being fair to not being fair. Most acts reign for a while and later vanish into thin air. What causes this disappearance is worth taking-on.
Firstly (music acceptance), we should check what seem to be mostly accepted by music lovers at a particular place, period of time or season. For instance since the year 2008; afro beats, funky instrumentals, dance-able beats are used for most songs, commercial rap songs becomes favorite rap tracks,indigenous content in songs lyrics makes songs more liked, in West-Africa. These highlighted points can predict how your music can do as per fan acceptance in west side Africa. So, for artiste that have been reigning by giving out songs with the highlighted features will still continue to reign as long as the taste of these fans remain loyal and faithful to the highlighted description. On the other hand as the taste of the fans change and their favorite artiste seems not to be relevant and one styled then his reigning spot will definitely go for another rightful act that is definitely giving what is en-vogue, it’s a simple arithmetic : Give them what they want and like and they’ll give you stardom. This is applicable to Nigerian hip-hop sensation, David Adeleke popularly known as davido, Balogun Ayo (Wizkid).
The second (personal life style or scandal) is the issue humans have generally and being a star is not an exemption, when an artiste is going through tribulation, this psychologically affect his music life and his fans seem feel concerned positively or negatively. The negative makes his fan-base reduce consecutively which leads to his falling off the high stage. For the case of scandals, this is one of the most career killing, fans seems not to understand life enough by judging stars because of being involve in a scandal, forgetting that they are just human like every other homo-sapiens and are bound to be innocent or guilty when there is a misunderstanding. For example; Nigerian hiphop star Abolore Akande (9ice) he was judged due to his matrimonial issue with his ex-wife Tony Payne and the issue he had with former pal and colleague ogochukwu Steven (ruggedman), the two stars still suffer from what happened then till today, let’s admit and take things gently with these celebrities, to be leniently judged if at all and as for international music star, Chris brown had an issue with his fellow act And talented girlfriend Rihanna And breezy as mostly called by his fans was judged by fans and people across the globe, which led to him disengaged with every of his award nomination that year And breezy was also stigmatise as a woman beater. The worry is ”what if he couldn’t get himself together and make Good music in getting nominated for an award not to even talk of winning one for the sake of the effort he has sacrificed since he’s been into music to get to this stage. And to win the heart of the people who has chosen him to be their best. So, we all should learn a lesson that we should never let our worries overwhelm us, because he fought it, he won and he’s doing fine.
The next is the case of Versatility, some artiste get success by luck because screening their works, one will have no doubt that they get to the top by fluke. Most of these star like this are tagged ”one hit artiste”. They come around, entertainment lovers feel them and they gain the fame and whatever comes along with it, then fans want more of the goodies but huuuugh!!! They are exhausted of seasonal or cool songs so they are missing and they are no more today. Some are talented and are not exhausted but they lost their touches of how to make the kind of songs they made to get to the top. Some aren’t versatile enough to change their tune to what people like at a particular time, because sometimes fans taste get better so acts need to improve and give them fortified songs.
This versality makes artiste last longer, tuface idibia, dbanj, p-square are the ones belonging to this group because they changes to what fans want, that’s because they are versatile And we all know the list of those affected.
To be continued…..
Author – Dimpled Angel
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